Step out of your comfort zone and meet your fellow man
By Mike Haynes
As soon as
I knew I would retire from Amarillo College and would have time for an early
December trip, Kathy and I booked one of those Viking river cruises that you
see advertised with enticing pictures and seducing words on Panhandle PBS.
We planned
it for more than a year to celebrate what I consider a significant milestone
for any married couple: our 25th anniversary.
I suppose
one reason we’re compatible is that we’re perfectly happy to do things just as
a pair. We don’t hate group activities, but we tend to be more comfortable, for
example, watching “Poldark” on … yes, Panhandle PBS, than being “social.”
But on a
cruise, you sit with other people for three meals a day, and we’re not socially
inept (at least Kathy isn’t), so over 11 days, we did manage to make some
friends.
The Christmas market in Old Town Square in Prague,
Czech Republic, has the gothic Tyn Church and baroque-style buildings as a backdrop. The church structure dates to 1385. (Photo by Mike Haynes) |
We
certainly recommend travel, and I could write pages about the wonderful sights and
sounds we experienced: the beautiful parliament building in Budapest, Hungary,
that you see in the Viking commercials; four young singers recreating “Sound of
Music” tunes in Salzburg, Austria; drinking apricot-like nectar at a monastery
near Krems, Austria; touring artist Albrecht Durer’s 16th century
house in Nuremberg, Germany; and watching the lights on a three-story tree
dance to the “William Tell Overture” at the brilliant Christmas market in
Prague, Czech Republic.
Christmas
certainly is on bright display in those town square markets across central
Europe, although the “reason for the season” is more commercial and cultural
than spiritual on a continent that gets more secular every year.
Our trip
was delightful in part because of the castles and cathedrals, sausage and trdelnik
pastry, but also because Kathy and I didn’t stay in our two-person cocoon. We
were reminded that people who might seem distant turn out to be just as
friendly as we West Texans.
Steve and
Gina had New York accents that, if you believe the movies, are supposed to
indicate … well, stereotypical New Yorkers. But guess who volunteered to lend
his camera battery charger and even trusted me to mail it back to him? Steve
from Long Island.
The two
gray-haired women from Pennsylvania turned out to be retired teachers with
fascinating travel stories about Cuba and China – one of whom has a son in
Midland, Texas.
After
venturing a conversation with another retired teacher from Missouri, we found
out she grew up in Brownfield, Texas. Janice from Nashville and Lynn from
Illinois take annual trips together since they retired from the insurance
industry, and we got to enjoy Janice’s Tennessee accent and goodbye hugs from
Lynn.
Aleksandar,
our ship’s maĆ®tre d’ from Bosnia, noticed my Dallas Mavericks shirt and was
eager to inform us that we were just 100 kilometers from the German hometown of
Mav star Dirk Nowitzki.
It’s
obvious, but strangers become real people when you get to know them personally.
The tall man with the hat who seemed to never smile during a tour of Vienna
turned into a retired mechanical engineer from St. Louis who’s been to
Amarillo. The ice was broken with the cute couple from Georgia when Kathy
complimented them on their attentiveness to each other.
Maybe
that’s one reason the Father sent his Son to Earth 2,000 years ago – so we
could get to know him better. As Jesus experienced humanity firsthand, those
people who met him in the flesh saw God directly rather than as a name on a
scroll.
Emmanuel –
“God with us” – Jesus the Messiah – still is available for a personal
relationship with each human being. Christianity is not a religion of just of
ritual and going through motions but of a direct connection.
We can
observe God and his creation, but for the real experience, we have to initiate
a conversation. We have to talk to him.